Just as a short note to support this model, there was that old finding (probably from pre- replication crisis area, I wonder if it’s survived?) that women experienced stronger post-rape trauma when it happened in their reproductive age; girls and old ladies were less traumatized. Also, women who were beaten and raped felt better than those who just raped, because then they could show that they had fought back.
Myself, as a woman, I don’t intuitively feel like getting beaten as well would lower my trauma, but I haven’t tried, so I don’t know. What really feels important is the way how it is done, in details. Getting groped by a drunken friend, as described above, wouldn’t traumatize me much; getting raped by a group of soldiers who are trying to outperform each other in humiliating the victim as much as possible, that’s an event that causes me the white-hot rage just by thinking about it (not because I would fear getting pregnant, but just because of the unbearable humiliation). In some countries group rapes get punished more severely than individual endeavors, for the same particular reason probably, for it doesn’t really affect the feared outcome (getting pregnant) much.
Just as a short note to support this model, there was that old finding (probably from pre- replication crisis area, I wonder if it’s survived?) that women experienced stronger post-rape trauma when it happened in their reproductive age; girls and old ladies were less traumatized. Also, women who were beaten and raped felt better than those who just raped, because then they could show that they had fought back.
Myself, as a woman, I don’t intuitively feel like getting beaten as well would lower my trauma, but I haven’t tried, so I don’t know. What really feels important is the way how it is done, in details. Getting groped by a drunken friend, as described above, wouldn’t traumatize me much; getting raped by a group of soldiers who are trying to outperform each other in humiliating the victim as much as possible, that’s an event that causes me the white-hot rage just by thinking about it (not because I would fear getting pregnant, but just because of the unbearable humiliation). In some countries group rapes get punished more severely than individual endeavors, for the same particular reason probably, for it doesn’t really affect the feared outcome (getting pregnant) much.