Edit: this comment is in reply to wording that cousin_it has now removed from his comment. You can get the gist from the brief excerpt that I have quoted.
You are assuming that I’m trying to give you advice that benefits you?
Thats interesting—especially when you’ve made it clear that you don’t bother to consider whether your actions benefit other people (in fact you choose to actively work against the benefit of other people). I think I made it pretty clear that, due to this behaviour, I neither respect you nor have any particular reason to help you. I was replying to your stated lack of understanding: “I don’t understand why it should be adopted.” in case you happened to have anything interesting to say about it.
I never thought that on balance you would choose to adopt the rule. :)
I gave you the reasons why people do adopt this rule and let you choose for yourself if that applies to your circumstances.
If you want to give advice that benefits me, try to give advice that’s actually been proven to benefit me, not advice that oh-so-conveniently happens to benefit you.
I’m sure we can each find oh-so-convenient examples that match what we choose to believe. I also expect that one person being a defector will probably clean up pretty nicely in a society full of people that choose not to defect (on average).
On average, it looks like it works for people that I’ve met (male and female)… that’s about all I can say. Why do you expect that for my advice to be good advice that it has to be 100% true for you as well as me?
You are assuming that I’m trying to give you advice that benefits you?
Please reread the following paragraph from your own comment:
That has it’s own further consequences down the line. If those further consequences later impinge upon your utility (eg help that you need but is not extended to you), then it would be worth considering adopting “my” rule.
Cousin_it’s reply made sense. Yours does not. The context makes it incoherent.
Weird… my comment above was a reply to a completely different comment of cousin_its
I can easily see why it looks incoherent.
I’m now going to go looking for the comment that I was actually replying to.
Edit: nope, looks like cousin_it has re-edited his original comment and removed that which I was actually replying to, so that my reply appears to be no longer relevant.
I am leaving my comment in place anyhow.
Oh—and I was giving advice that may or may not benefit people in general—not specifically for cousin_it’s benefit. Thus why my reply is not entirely incoherent :)
I was mainly responding to his statement that “I don’t understand why it should be adopted.” by explaining why it’s worth considering as an option—ie why other people adopt it.
Edit: this comment is in reply to wording that cousin_it has now removed from his comment. You can get the gist from the brief excerpt that I have quoted.
You are assuming that I’m trying to give you advice that benefits you?
Thats interesting—especially when you’ve made it clear that you don’t bother to consider whether your actions benefit other people (in fact you choose to actively work against the benefit of other people). I think I made it pretty clear that, due to this behaviour, I neither respect you nor have any particular reason to help you. I was replying to your stated lack of understanding: “I don’t understand why it should be adopted.” in case you happened to have anything interesting to say about it.
I never thought that on balance you would choose to adopt the rule. :) I gave you the reasons why people do adopt this rule and let you choose for yourself if that applies to your circumstances.
I’m sure we can each find oh-so-convenient examples that match what we choose to believe. I also expect that one person being a defector will probably clean up pretty nicely in a society full of people that choose not to defect (on average).
On average, it looks like it works for people that I’ve met (male and female)… that’s about all I can say. Why do you expect that for my advice to be good advice that it has to be 100% true for you as well as me?
Please reread the following paragraph from your own comment:
Cousin_it’s reply made sense. Yours does not. The context makes it incoherent.
Weird… my comment above was a reply to a completely different comment of cousin_its
I can easily see why it looks incoherent.
I’m now going to go looking for the comment that I was actually replying to.
Edit: nope, looks like cousin_it has re-edited his original comment and removed that which I was actually replying to, so that my reply appears to be no longer relevant.
I am leaving my comment in place anyhow.
Oh—and I was giving advice that may or may not benefit people in general—not specifically for cousin_it’s benefit. Thus why my reply is not entirely incoherent :)
I was mainly responding to his statement that “I don’t understand why it should be adopted.” by explaining why it’s worth considering as an option—ie why other people adopt it.