Ah, gotcha. I guess I’d give the same advice hypothetically… establish a general framework in which asking for things you (both) want is a good thing. This is just a special case of that.
As for how to do that, well, it depends a lot on the people involved. Mostly, my advice is to ask for things you want, and encourage her to do the same, and see where that goes.
I’m currently single so the question is hypothetical.
Ah, gotcha. I guess I’d give the same advice hypothetically… establish a general framework in which asking for things you (both) want is a good thing. This is just a special case of that.
As for how to do that, well, it depends a lot on the people involved. Mostly, my advice is to ask for things you want, and encourage her to do the same, and see where that goes.