To jump off of Qiacochu’s point, I’m in the smart category. I’m going ok with people using that. I’m not in the tall or the strong category, and those people are ok with me asking them for help when I need it. This is really the law of comparative advantage in a nutshell. And society as a whole benefits.
That’s part of the reason I wrote this the way I did; don’t assume the strategy means “Making yourself unavailable for assistance”. You do need to avoid making yourself nothing but a resource to other people.
And the existence of a strategy becomes quite necessary as you start dealing with the darker side of this entitlement mentality; when an expectation exists for you solely to your detriment, and may not even be recognized as an entitlement, but hides under another guise altogether.
To jump off of Qiacochu’s point, I’m in the smart category. I’m going ok with people using that. I’m not in the tall or the strong category, and those people are ok with me asking them for help when I need it. This is really the law of comparative advantage in a nutshell. And society as a whole benefits.
That’s part of the reason I wrote this the way I did; don’t assume the strategy means “Making yourself unavailable for assistance”. You do need to avoid making yourself nothing but a resource to other people.
And the existence of a strategy becomes quite necessary as you start dealing with the darker side of this entitlement mentality; when an expectation exists for you solely to your detriment, and may not even be recognized as an entitlement, but hides under another guise altogether.