When clueless people act selfishly, the typical reaction I observe is “Who does that guy think he is?!” People get upset when people do things they don’t really have the status to get away with. An important point to remember when analyzing meta-status signals is that there is an underlying reality to status, grounded in a person’s actual value to society and power within it, and meta signals can’t let you deviate far from this unless people are cut off from the primary evidence.
That’s right, high-status selfish behavior can be trumped by actually violating the boundaries of your social role.
I was referring to selfish behavior that either (1) they really have the status to get away with, e.g. if Einstein took all the scones for himself at a physics conference, or (2) might be impolite but doesn’t actually overstep boundaries, e.g. “can I have one of your cigarettes?” “no.”
When clueless people act selfishly, the typical reaction I observe is “Who does that guy think he is?!” People get upset when people do things they don’t really have the status to get away with. An important point to remember when analyzing meta-status signals is that there is an underlying reality to status, grounded in a person’s actual value to society and power within it, and meta signals can’t let you deviate far from this unless people are cut off from the primary evidence.
That’s right, high-status selfish behavior can be trumped by actually violating the boundaries of your social role.
I was referring to selfish behavior that either (1) they really have the status to get away with, e.g. if Einstein took all the scones for himself at a physics conference, or (2) might be impolite but doesn’t actually overstep boundaries, e.g. “can I have one of your cigarettes?” “no.”
The absence of such caveats and context from the post is what I referred to when saying that this was second order effects that should be corrections to first order effects, not the whole story. Ignoring this makes the claim seem stronger than can be justified.