I think the two answers so far, Positional Goods and Arms Race, are pretty solid. But I’d like to challenge the underlying statement—there are no truly fixed-sum games in the real world. Utility is highly-dimensional and highly variable across time and individuals, and every legible interaction is actually a sub-game in a much more complex set of known and unknown future decisions.
It’s very often worth noticing these features in interpersonal, small-scale decisions. Whether you frame it as “look for the win-win”, “avoid zero-sum sub-games”, or “prefer kindness over winning”, it’s good advice.
I don’t know many cases where it’s useful on the general topics you give as examples (industries, education as a whole, dating).
I should probably admit that I actually do care about myself and those close to me more than strangers, and I acknowledge that there is some amount of zero-sum outcomes in our current perceptions of individual identity. The overall game of individual existence is a mix of many games, and winning some of the zero-sum components lets me get higher sums on other components.
I think the two answers so far, Positional Goods and Arms Race, are pretty solid. But I’d like to challenge the underlying statement—there are no truly fixed-sum games in the real world. Utility is highly-dimensional and highly variable across time and individuals, and every legible interaction is actually a sub-game in a much more complex set of known and unknown future decisions.
I think I agree with you, but I also think it’s very useful to think of games as fixed-sum when making decisions relating to them.
It’s very often worth noticing these features in interpersonal, small-scale decisions. Whether you frame it as “look for the win-win”, “avoid zero-sum sub-games”, or “prefer kindness over winning”, it’s good advice.
I don’t know many cases where it’s useful on the general topics you give as examples (industries, education as a whole, dating).
I should probably admit that I actually do care about myself and those close to me more than strangers, and I acknowledge that there is some amount of zero-sum outcomes in our current perceptions of individual identity. The overall game of individual existence is a mix of many games, and winning some of the zero-sum components lets me get higher sums on other components.