A previous example I ran into was using the phrase “X is an unhealthy relationship dynamic.” I found myself saying it in a few different places without actually knowing what I meant by “unhealthy,” I think the word unhealthy was being slightly more descriptive than “bad”, but not by much.
Unfortunately I can’t remember the particular examples that I was originally noticing. Some of them might have related to power differentials, or perceived power differentials. (Which I think I now have a more gearsy model of why you should be wary of them, although I think I may not have every really gotten clear on this point)
Not because it removes the illusion of meaning, but because it makes you sound less cool. I’m thinking of conversations here, in solitary thinking it wouldn’t make much difference imo.
A previous example I ran into was using the phrase “X is an unhealthy relationship dynamic.” I found myself saying it in a few different places without actually knowing what I meant by “unhealthy,” I think the word unhealthy was being slightly more descriptive than “bad”, but not by much.
Unfortunately I can’t remember the particular examples that I was originally noticing. Some of them might have related to power differentials, or perceived power differentials. (Which I think I now have a more gearsy model of why you should be wary of them, although I think I may not have every really gotten clear on this point)
Tbh switching from using “unhealthy” to “bad” can help cause it removes any trace of sophistication, thereby making this kind of usage less rewarding.
Are you saying it’s better to say “bad” than “unhealthy?” (because it removes the illusion of meaning?)
Not because it removes the illusion of meaning, but because it makes you sound less cool. I’m thinking of conversations here, in solitary thinking it wouldn’t make much difference imo.
or, you could use unhealthy only to mean things which are likely to decrease your health (mental health included)
Thats what I meant ofc.