Sorry, I was using “normal” to mean “not abusive”. Even in weird and atypical environments, I find it hard to think of situations where “don’t hang out with your family” is an acceptable ask (with the one exception listed in my comment).
Is your point that “being asked to not hang out with low value people” is inherently abusive in a way worse than everything else going on in that list? Like maybe it’s terrible, but I don’t put it in it’s own separate category apart from “sleeping with my boss.” That’s kind of my general point: none of the stuff said in this post is unusual for an environment where the employee lives and sleeps with their boss.
Is your point that “being asked to not hang out with low value people” is inherently abusive in a way worse than everything else going on in that list?
Sorry, I was using “normal” to mean “not abusive”. Even in weird and atypical environments, I find it hard to think of situations where “don’t hang out with your family” is an acceptable ask (with the one exception listed in my comment).
Is your point that “being asked to not hang out with low value people” is inherently abusive in a way worse than everything else going on in that list? Like maybe it’s terrible, but I don’t put it in it’s own separate category apart from “sleeping with my boss.” That’s kind of my general point: none of the stuff said in this post is unusual for an environment where the employee lives and sleeps with their boss.
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