RETRACTING: I missed the Pauline quotes from Corinthians, which makes my whole post irrelevant.
The new testament takes an extreme socially conservative position on sex and marriage: Marriage should be patriarchal, a woman should never divorce her husband, no matter what, and a divorced woman should never remarry while her husband lives.
You’re right about one of these, that the new testament (specifically Paul) says marriage should be patriarchal. The other words you spoke are the exact other way around. The exact New Testament quotes are:
“Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?” ”
After a long passage Jesus at the end responds “What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” and also Mathhew 5:32 “But I say to you, That whoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causes her to commit adultery: and whoever shall marry her that is divorced commits adultery.”
And also Luke 16:18: “Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries one who is divorced from a husband commits adultery. ”
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In short, in complete opposition to what you said, the new Testament says that a man should never divorce his wife, and that a divorced man should never remarry after a divorce (or marry a woman who was divorced) -- it’s the man who is committing adultery in both these cases, or who is causing the woman to commit adultery (and thus is portrayed as ultimately responsible for this sin).
I want to be charitable in my interpretation of your words, but these factoids seem way too reversed to have been an honest mistake in your part.
Romans 7:2-3 The apostle Paul taught that “...by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress, even though she marries another man.”
Here’s another:
1 Corinthians 7:10-13, 27, 39 The apostle Paul’s teaching continues: “To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband.
Let us compare. Romans says:
by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive
1 Corinthians says:
A wife must not separate from her husband.
sam says:
a woman should never divorce her husband, no matter what
Sounds like it’s saying the same thing in different words.
Let us compare. Romans says:
if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress.
1 Corinthians says:
But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband.
sam says:
a divorced woman should never remarry while her husband lives
Sounds like it’s saying the same thing in different words.
Ah, you’re right, I somehow missed those Pauline quotes from Corinthians when I was looking up quotes about divorce, and I thought sam had deliberately mangled the Jesus quotes instead.
I’ll retract my earlier comment. Thanks for the correction.
RETRACTING: I missed the Pauline quotes from Corinthians, which makes my whole post irrelevant.
You’re right about one of these, that the new testament (specifically Paul) says marriage should be patriarchal. The other words you spoke are the exact other way around. The exact New Testament quotes are:
“Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?” ” After a long passage Jesus at the end responds “What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” and also Mathhew 5:32 “But I say to you, That whoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causes her to commit adultery: and whoever shall marry her that is divorced commits adultery.”
And also Luke 16:18: “Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries one who is divorced from a husband commits adultery. ”
--
In short, in complete opposition to what you said, the new Testament says that a man should never divorce his wife, and that a divorced man should never remarry after a divorce (or marry a woman who was divorced) -- it’s the man who is committing adultery in both these cases, or who is causing the woman to commit adultery (and thus is portrayed as ultimately responsible for this sin).
I want to be charitable in my interpretation of your words, but these factoids seem way too reversed to have been an honest mistake in your part.
It’s easy to google the quotes up. Here’s one.
Here’s another:
Let us compare. Romans says:
1 Corinthians says:
sam says:
Sounds like it’s saying the same thing in different words.
Let us compare. Romans says:
1 Corinthians says:
sam says:
Sounds like it’s saying the same thing in different words.
Source.
Ah, you’re right, I somehow missed those Pauline quotes from Corinthians when I was looking up quotes about divorce, and I thought sam had deliberately mangled the Jesus quotes instead.
I’ll retract my earlier comment. Thanks for the correction.