This reminds me of the focusing/circling/NVC discussions, one group (to which I belonged) was like “this is obviously culty mindfuckery, can’t you see” and the other group couldn’t see, and arguments couldn’t bridge that gap. It’s like how some people can recognize bullying and others will say “boys will be boys”, while looking at the exact same situation.
This reminds me of the focusing/circling/NVC discussions, one group (to which I belonged) was like “this is obviously culty mindfuckery, can’t you see” and the other group couldn’t see, and arguments couldn’t bridge that gap. It’s like how some people can recognize bullying and others will say “boys will be boys”, while looking at the exact same situation.