There are skills that allow you to discern when people actually want your opinion and when they’re just asking for reassurance. Wouldn’t you rather have those?
The trouble is, you have to be really good with those skills and get things right almost all of the time before they’re worth much, since people weigh negatively-perceived interactions much more strongly than positively-perceived interactions in close relationships.
The trouble is, you have to be really good with those skills and get things right almost all of the time before they’re worth much, since people weigh negatively-perceived interactions much more strongly than positively-perceived interactions in close relationships.