To some limping extent, we form a semi-endogamous community.
This probably explains why I never felt the pull towards regular polyamory that many here do. I generally don’t find much value in my romantic or sexual partners being good rationalists let alone familiar with this site, since if I paid much attention to this filter I would have to make large sacrifices on other things. Even general geekiness while nice is just a bonus.
Moderately high IQ, tolerance for occasional philosophical rants and most of all sexy bodies please.
One interesting attempt is to try and make your target public more rational after commitment.
I’ve met a super hot girl who was convinced into reading HPMOR by her LWer kiddo.
Which makes me now desire to do the same with my girlfriend, who happens to be superhot as well ;)
I am in an open relashionship though.
I’d be curious to know why some males in the LW community want females who are also from the LW community in the first place…
It isn’t hard to get partners into whatever you are into early in the relationship when you have lots of oxytocin fuelled pair bonding so I don’t see why it wouldn’t work for rationality.
This probably explains why I never felt the pull towards regular polyamory that many here do. I generally don’t find much value in my romantic or sexual partners being good rationalists let alone familiar with this site, since if I paid much attention to this filter I would have to make large sacrifices on other things. Even general geekiness while nice is just a bonus.
Moderately high IQ, tolerance for occasional philosophical rants and most of all sexy bodies please.
One interesting attempt is to try and make your target public more rational after commitment. I’ve met a super hot girl who was convinced into reading HPMOR by her LWer kiddo. Which makes me now desire to do the same with my girlfriend, who happens to be superhot as well ;) I am in an open relashionship though.
I’d be curious to know why some males in the LW community want females who are also from the LW community in the first place…
It isn’t hard to get partners into whatever you are into early in the relationship when you have lots of oxytocin fuelled pair bonding so I don’t see why it wouldn’t work for rationality.