I don’t think any bit of jargon is going to hide the fact that it’s a little humiliating to leave a discussion having failed to move your interlocutor. Someone who isn’t humiliated at having laid out all their reasons to no effect is probably arguing in bad faith.
I’m not so sure. If I have laid out all my reasons to no effect, that could simply mean my opponent is unusually obstinate rather than that my arguments are unusually poor.
Fair enough, but we should recognize how powerfully motivated we are to think our intractable opponent is obstinate rather than reasonably unconvinced.
“Having more free time” and “being more stubborn” shouldn’t win arguments, but they do in real life where arguments are mostly about status, so we translate the status dynamics online.
I don’t think any bit of jargon is going to hide the fact that it’s a little humiliating to leave a discussion having failed to move your interlocutor. Someone who isn’t humiliated at having laid out all their reasons to no effect is probably arguing in bad faith.
I’m not so sure. If I have laid out all my reasons to no effect, that could simply mean my opponent is unusually obstinate rather than that my arguments are unusually poor.
Fair enough, but we should recognize how powerfully motivated we are to think our intractable opponent is obstinate rather than reasonably unconvinced.
“Having more free time” and “being more stubborn” shouldn’t win arguments, but they do in real life where arguments are mostly about status, so we translate the status dynamics online.