On the other hand, I think I’ve read claims that everyone is actually bisexual, and people who claim they’re heterosexual are just suppressing their homosexual tendencies and vice versa.
Well, the claims are certainly made. I find them about as absurd as the claims that everyone is actually monosexual, myself, though I’d certainly agree that there are a whole lot of people asserting a far greater degree of monosexuality than they actually possess.
Whenever this subject comes up I’m reminded of a woman at a party who was trotting out the “there are no bisexual men, they’re just gay men in denial” chestnut, to which I replied “Right! I mean, consider me and my husband. We’ve been in a monogamous same-sex relationship for the last twenty years, but we claim to be bisexual solely to preserve our heterosexual privilege. Um. No, wait, how does that work again?”
On the other hand, I think I’ve read claims that everyone is actually bisexual, and people who claim they’re heterosexual are just suppressing their homosexual tendencies and vice versa.
Well, the claims are certainly made. I find them about as absurd as the claims that everyone is actually monosexual, myself, though I’d certainly agree that there are a whole lot of people asserting a far greater degree of monosexuality than they actually possess.
Whenever this subject comes up I’m reminded of a woman at a party who was trotting out the “there are no bisexual men, they’re just gay men in denial” chestnut, to which I replied “Right! I mean, consider me and my husband. We’ve been in a monogamous same-sex relationship for the last twenty years, but we claim to be bisexual solely to preserve our heterosexual privilege. Um. No, wait, how does that work again?”
She was annoyed with me.