The regrettability of abortion is connected to the availability of birth control, and so similarly, the regrettability of infanticide should be connected to the availability of abortion. A key difference is that while birth control may fail, abortion basically doesn’t. I can think of a handful of reasons for infanticide to make sense when abortion didn’t, and they’re all related to things like unexpected infant disability the parents aren’t prepared to handle, or sudden, badly timed, unanticipated financial/family stability disasters.
In either case, given that the baby doesn’t necessarily occupy privileged uterine real estate the way a fetus must, I think it makes sense to push adoption as strongly preferred recourse before infanticide reaches the top of the list. Unlike asking a woman who wants an abortion to have the baby and give it up for adoption, this imposes no additional cost on her relative to the alternative.
Additionally, I think any but the most strongly controlled permission for infanticide would lead to cases where one parent killed their baby over the desire of the other parent to keep it. It seems obvious to me that either parent’s wish that the baby live—assuming they’re willing to raise it or give it up for adoption, and don’t just vaguely prefer that it continue being alive while the wants-it-dead parent deal with its actual care—should be a sufficient condition that it live. I might even extend this to other relatives.
I like this test, with the following cautions:
The regrettability of abortion is connected to the availability of birth control, and so similarly, the regrettability of infanticide should be connected to the availability of abortion. A key difference is that while birth control may fail, abortion basically doesn’t. I can think of a handful of reasons for infanticide to make sense when abortion didn’t, and they’re all related to things like unexpected infant disability the parents aren’t prepared to handle, or sudden, badly timed, unanticipated financial/family stability disasters.
In either case, given that the baby doesn’t necessarily occupy privileged uterine real estate the way a fetus must, I think it makes sense to push adoption as strongly preferred recourse before infanticide reaches the top of the list. Unlike asking a woman who wants an abortion to have the baby and give it up for adoption, this imposes no additional cost on her relative to the alternative.
Additionally, I think any but the most strongly controlled permission for infanticide would lead to cases where one parent killed their baby over the desire of the other parent to keep it. It seems obvious to me that either parent’s wish that the baby live—assuming they’re willing to raise it or give it up for adoption, and don’t just vaguely prefer that it continue being alive while the wants-it-dead parent deal with its actual care—should be a sufficient condition that it live. I might even extend this to other relatives.