I really like how you used the specific term limerance here instead of something more general. However, I think that it would improve the post to spend a little bit of time discussing what limerance means instead of linking to the Wikipedia page. It’s a core part of this post, I suspect a good amount of people don’t know what it means, and after a brief skim I found the Wikipedia page to be confusing and not very readable.
I also think the post could be improved by having more concrete examples. I found it to be pretty abstract, which made it hard for me to think about things.
I really like how you used the specific term limerance here instead of something more general. However, I think that it would improve the post to spend a little bit of time discussing what limerance means instead of linking to the Wikipedia page. It’s a core part of this post, I suspect a good amount of people don’t know what it means, and after a brief skim I found the Wikipedia page to be confusing and not very readable.
I also think the post could be improved by having more concrete examples. I found it to be pretty abstract, which made it hard for me to think about things.
Yeah, I agree with all points here. I was focused on getting a version of the post out at-all rater than perfection.
Unfortunately all my motivating examples are situations that are tricky to convert into public anecdotes.
That makes total sense :)