[…] my assumption is that I broadly want to live in a world that has limerence in it, and has being-in-love, but that doesn’t mean any particular instance of limerence or love is that important, or more important than other things I value.
Same.
My point is more that discovering that an instance of limerence is adversarial to other things you care about highlights a place where you’re not aligned with your own CEV. The solution of “override this instance of limerence in favor of current-model rational decisions about what I should or shouldn’t do or want” is not CEV-convergent.
…and neither is “trust in love [blindly]”. But that’s not a relevant LW error mode AFAICT.
Same.
My point is more that discovering that an instance of limerence is adversarial to other things you care about highlights a place where you’re not aligned with your own CEV. The solution of “override this instance of limerence in favor of current-model rational decisions about what I should or shouldn’t do or want” is not CEV-convergent.
…and neither is “trust in love [blindly]”. But that’s not a relevant LW error mode AFAICT.