Some things don’t make sense unless you really experience it. Personally I have no words for the warping effects such emotions have on you. It’s comparable to having kids or getting brain injury.
It’s a socially acceptable mental disorder.
The only thing is to notice when you are in that state and put very low credence on all positive opinions you have about your Limerent Object. You cannot know to a high confidence anything about them in that state. Give it a few years.
Don’t take decisions you can’t undo, entangle parts of your life which will be painful to detach later.
But it’s a ride worth going on. No point in living life too safely. Have fun but stay safe out there.
Some things don’t make sense unless you really experience it. Personally I have no words for the warping effects such emotions have on you. It’s comparable to having kids or getting brain injury.
It’s a socially acceptable mental disorder.
The only thing is to notice when you are in that state and put very low credence on all positive opinions you have about your Limerent Object. You cannot know to a high confidence anything about them in that state. Give it a few years.
Don’t take decisions you can’t undo, entangle parts of your life which will be painful to detach later.
But it’s a ride worth going on. No point in living life too safely. Have fun but stay safe out there.