Now of course, in the modern world there are many more situations where this tendency is maladaptive than in the human environment of evolutionary adaptedness. Nevertheless, I’d say that in most situations in which it enters the strategic calculations it’s still greatly beneficial.
I agree, or at least agree for situations where people are in their native culture or one they’re intimately familiar with, so that they’re relatively well-calibrated. What I wrote was poorly phrased to the point of being wrong without lawyerly cavilling.
To rephrase more carefully; you can act in a manner that gets the same results as anger without being angry. You can have a better, more strategic response. I’m not claiming it’s easy to rewire yourself like this, but it’s possible. If your natural anger response is anomalously low, as is the case for myself and many others on the autism spectrum, and you’re attempting some relatively hardcore rewiring anyway, why not go for the strategic analysis instead of trying to decrease your threshold for blowing up?
I’m not sure if you understand the real point of precommitment. The idea is that your strategic position may be stronger if you are conditionally committed to act in ways that are irrational if these conditions are actually realized. Such precommitment is rational on the whole because it eliminates the opponent’s incentives to create these conditions, so if the strategy works, you don’t actually have to perform the irrational act, which remains just a counterfactual threat.
In particular, if you enter confrontations only when it is cost-effective to do so, this may leave you vulnerable to a strategy that maneuvers you into a situation where surrender is less costly than fighting. However, if you’re precommitted to fight even irrationally (i.e. if the cost of fighting is higher than the prize defended), this makes such strategies ineffective, so the opponent won’t even try them.
So for example, suppose you’re negotiating the price you’ll charge for some work, and given the straightforward cost-benefit calculations, it would be profitable for you to get anything over $10K, while it would be profitable for the other party to pay anything under $20K, so the possible deals are in that range. Now, if your potential client resolutely refuses to pay more than $11K, and if it’s really impossible for you to get more, it is still rational for you to take that price rather than give up on the deal. However, if you are actually ready to accept this price given no other options, this gives the other party the incentive to insist with utter stubbornness that no higher price is possible. On the other hand, if you signal credibly that you’d respond to such a low offer by getting indignant that your work is valued so little and leaving angrily, then this strategy won’t work, and you have improved your strategic position—even though getting angry and leaving is irrational assuming that $11K really is the final offer.
(Clearly, the strategy goes both ways, and the buyer is also better off if he gets “irrationally” indignant at high prices that still leave him with a net plus. Real-life negotiations are complicated by countless other factors as well. Still, this is a practically relevant example of the basic principle.)
Now of course, an ideally rational agent with a perfect control of his external behavior would play the double game of signaling such precommitment convincingly but falsely and yielding if the bluff is called (or perhaps not if there would be consequences on his reputation). This however is normally impossible for humans, so you’re better off with real precommitment that your emotional propensity to anger provides. Of course, if your emotional propensities are miscalibrated in any way, this can lead to strategic blunders instead of benefits—and the quality of this calibration is a very significant part of what differentiates successful from unsuccessful people.
I’m not sure if you understand the real point of precommitment. The idea is that your strategic position may be stronger if you are conditionally committed to act in ways that are irrational if these conditions are actually realized. Such precommitment is rational on the whole because it eliminates the opponent’s incentives to create these conditions, so if the strategy works, you don’t actually have to perform the irrational act, which remains just a counterfactual threat.
I agree with what you are saying and would perhaps have described it as “ways that would otherwise have been irrational”.
I obviously need to work on phrasing things more clearly.
Anger functions as a strategic precommitment which improves your bargaining position. Two examples of a precommitment would be as follows (1) A car buyer going to a dealership with a contract stating that for every dollar they pay over a predetermined price (manufacturers price plus average industry margin presumably) they must pay ten dollars to some other party (who can credibly hold them to it). (2) Destroying your means of retreat when you plan aggression against another party, so that you have no motive to hold anything back, like Cortes did when he burned his ships upon landing in Mexico.
Now (1) is more like anger than (2) is because it’s a public signal, but both of them reduce your options to strengthen your position, (1) in a negotiation, (2) as a committed, cohesive group. (1) is very much like throwing the steering wheel out the window in the game of chicken. Pretending your hands are tied and you can’t go above/below the stated price without going further up the chain of command is actually one of those negotiating tricks that are in all the books, like the car salesman who goes “Oh, I’m not sure; I’ll have to consult my boss” and smokes a cigarette in the office before coming back and agreeing to a lower price.
Swimmer963 asked me:
If you’re not angry, what would motivate you to do any of those things?
and I replied
If you are dealing with someone in your social circle, or can be seen by someone in your social circle and you want to build or maintain a reputation as someone it is not wise to cross. Even if it’s more or less a one shot game, if you make a point of not being a doormat it is likely to impact your self-image, which will impact your behaviour, which will impact how others treat you.
Even if in the short run retaliating helps nobody and slightly harms you, it can be worth it for repuatational and self-concept reasons.
which I think shows at least a weak grasp of how these precommitments can work; one builds a reputation, and given that we’re meatbags with malleable conceptions of self, a reason to make such precommitments even when they cannot effect our reputation.
If “normally impossible” means very, very hard I agree completely; robust self-behavioural modification is hard even for small things, never mind for something as difficult to bring into conscious awareness or control as anger.
Would you consider expanding upon quality of calibration?
Yes, I think we understand each other now. Funny, I had the “must consult my boss” trick pulled on me just a few days ago by a guy whom I called up to haul off some trash. I still managed to make him lower the supposedly boss-mandated price by about 20%. (And when I later thought about the whole negotiation more carefully, I realized I could have probably lowered it much more.)
Regarding the quality of calibration, it’s straightforward. Emotional reactions can serve as strategic precommitments the way we just discussed, and often they also serve as decision heuristics in problems where one lacks the necessary information and processing power for a conscious rational calculation. In both cases, they can be useful if they are well-calibrated to produce strategically sound actions, but if they’re poorly calibrated, they can lead to outright irrational and self-destructive behavior.
So for example, if you fail to feel angry indignation when appropriate, you’re in danger of others maneuvering you into a position where they’ll treat you as a doormat, both in business and in private life. On the other hand, if such emotions are triggered too easily, you’ll be perceived as short-tempered, unreasonable, and impossible to deal with, again with bad consequences, both professional and private.
It seems to me that the key characteristic that distinguishes high achievers is the excellent calibration of their emotional reactions—especially compared to people who are highly intelligent and conscientious and nevertheless have much less to show for it.
I agree, or at least agree for situations where people are in their native culture or one they’re intimately familiar with, so that they’re relatively well-calibrated. What I wrote was poorly phrased to the point of being wrong without lawyerly cavilling.
To rephrase more carefully; you can act in a manner that gets the same results as anger without being angry. You can have a better, more strategic response. I’m not claiming it’s easy to rewire yourself like this, but it’s possible. If your natural anger response is anomalously low, as is the case for myself and many others on the autism spectrum, and you’re attempting some relatively hardcore rewiring anyway, why not go for the strategic analysis instead of trying to decrease your threshold for blowing up?
I’m not sure if you understand the real point of precommitment. The idea is that your strategic position may be stronger if you are conditionally committed to act in ways that are irrational if these conditions are actually realized. Such precommitment is rational on the whole because it eliminates the opponent’s incentives to create these conditions, so if the strategy works, you don’t actually have to perform the irrational act, which remains just a counterfactual threat.
In particular, if you enter confrontations only when it is cost-effective to do so, this may leave you vulnerable to a strategy that maneuvers you into a situation where surrender is less costly than fighting. However, if you’re precommitted to fight even irrationally (i.e. if the cost of fighting is higher than the prize defended), this makes such strategies ineffective, so the opponent won’t even try them.
So for example, suppose you’re negotiating the price you’ll charge for some work, and given the straightforward cost-benefit calculations, it would be profitable for you to get anything over $10K, while it would be profitable for the other party to pay anything under $20K, so the possible deals are in that range. Now, if your potential client resolutely refuses to pay more than $11K, and if it’s really impossible for you to get more, it is still rational for you to take that price rather than give up on the deal. However, if you are actually ready to accept this price given no other options, this gives the other party the incentive to insist with utter stubbornness that no higher price is possible. On the other hand, if you signal credibly that you’d respond to such a low offer by getting indignant that your work is valued so little and leaving angrily, then this strategy won’t work, and you have improved your strategic position—even though getting angry and leaving is irrational assuming that $11K really is the final offer.
(Clearly, the strategy goes both ways, and the buyer is also better off if he gets “irrationally” indignant at high prices that still leave him with a net plus. Real-life negotiations are complicated by countless other factors as well. Still, this is a practically relevant example of the basic principle.)
Now of course, an ideally rational agent with a perfect control of his external behavior would play the double game of signaling such precommitment convincingly but falsely and yielding if the bluff is called (or perhaps not if there would be consequences on his reputation). This however is normally impossible for humans, so you’re better off with real precommitment that your emotional propensity to anger provides. Of course, if your emotional propensities are miscalibrated in any way, this can lead to strategic blunders instead of benefits—and the quality of this calibration is a very significant part of what differentiates successful from unsuccessful people.
I agree with what you are saying and would perhaps have described it as “ways that would otherwise have been irrational”.
I obviously need to work on phrasing things more clearly.
Anger functions as a strategic precommitment which improves your bargaining position. Two examples of a precommitment would be as follows (1) A car buyer going to a dealership with a contract stating that for every dollar they pay over a predetermined price (manufacturers price plus average industry margin presumably) they must pay ten dollars to some other party (who can credibly hold them to it). (2) Destroying your means of retreat when you plan aggression against another party, so that you have no motive to hold anything back, like Cortes did when he burned his ships upon landing in Mexico.
Now (1) is more like anger than (2) is because it’s a public signal, but both of them reduce your options to strengthen your position, (1) in a negotiation, (2) as a committed, cohesive group. (1) is very much like throwing the steering wheel out the window in the game of chicken. Pretending your hands are tied and you can’t go above/below the stated price without going further up the chain of command is actually one of those negotiating tricks that are in all the books, like the car salesman who goes “Oh, I’m not sure; I’ll have to consult my boss” and smokes a cigarette in the office before coming back and agreeing to a lower price.
Swimmer963 asked me:
and I replied
which I think shows at least a weak grasp of how these precommitments can work; one builds a reputation, and given that we’re meatbags with malleable conceptions of self, a reason to make such precommitments even when they cannot effect our reputation.
If “normally impossible” means very, very hard I agree completely; robust self-behavioural modification is hard even for small things, never mind for something as difficult to bring into conscious awareness or control as anger.
Would you consider expanding upon quality of calibration?
Yes, I think we understand each other now. Funny, I had the “must consult my boss” trick pulled on me just a few days ago by a guy whom I called up to haul off some trash. I still managed to make him lower the supposedly boss-mandated price by about 20%. (And when I later thought about the whole negotiation more carefully, I realized I could have probably lowered it much more.)
Regarding the quality of calibration, it’s straightforward. Emotional reactions can serve as strategic precommitments the way we just discussed, and often they also serve as decision heuristics in problems where one lacks the necessary information and processing power for a conscious rational calculation. In both cases, they can be useful if they are well-calibrated to produce strategically sound actions, but if they’re poorly calibrated, they can lead to outright irrational and self-destructive behavior.
So for example, if you fail to feel angry indignation when appropriate, you’re in danger of others maneuvering you into a position where they’ll treat you as a doormat, both in business and in private life. On the other hand, if such emotions are triggered too easily, you’ll be perceived as short-tempered, unreasonable, and impossible to deal with, again with bad consequences, both professional and private.
It seems to me that the key characteristic that distinguishes high achievers is the excellent calibration of their emotional reactions—especially compared to people who are highly intelligent and conscientious and nevertheless have much less to show for it.