I try to put in the effort to make a guess as to what the thing is saying so people can confirm/deny my interpretation instead of explain it to me from scratch, and
I think I’m being constructive and helping the builder bake their idea properly.
But maybe sometimes I come across as crying ‘food poisoning’? (I can see myself feeling this way if, for instance, I put out an idea I thought was fully baked but a commenter points out it’s not as well-baked as I thought it was, and that might be the case for others as well, but I might also actually come across as accusatory and I’d like to try to avoid doing that :P)
When I comment on things:
I try to put in the effort to make a guess as to what the thing is saying so people can confirm/deny my interpretation instead of explain it to me from scratch, and
I think I’m being constructive and helping the builder bake their idea properly.
But maybe sometimes I come across as crying ‘food poisoning’? (I can see myself feeling this way if, for instance, I put out an idea I thought was fully baked but a commenter points out it’s not as well-baked as I thought it was, and that might be the case for others as well, but I might also actually come across as accusatory and I’d like to try to avoid doing that :P)