I’m confused—you seem to take it as a given that PUA techniques are the only/best tool for pursuing the many forms of relationship mentioned in the article. I’m by no means an expert, but I’d be surprised if PUA worked as well for, say, a woman trying to extend her list of partners with a man with a shared interest in classical music. (Quickly glancing at some lists, “get out there and meet people” seems to be good advice; but quickly approaching lots of partners may not work well in this case.)
Isn’t it possible that the broader scope of this article justifies de-emphasizing pickup artistry? Even if you don’t think that PUA should be avoided for its mind-killing properties, shouldn’t we at least give lukeprog the benefit of the doubt? If nothing else, there may be follow-up articles dealing with this.
I’m confused—you seem to take it as a given that PUA techniques are the only/best tool for pursuing the many forms of relationship mentioned in the article. I’m by no means an expert, but I’d be surprised if PUA worked as well for, say, a woman trying to extend her list of partners with a man with a shared interest in classical music. (Quickly glancing at some lists, “get out there and meet people” seems to be good advice; but quickly approaching lots of partners may not work well in this case.)
Isn’t it possible that the broader scope of this article justifies de-emphasizing pickup artistry? Even if you don’t think that PUA should be avoided for its mind-killing properties, shouldn’t we at least give lukeprog the benefit of the doubt? If nothing else, there may be follow-up articles dealing with this.
I didn’t say that, let me explicitly disclaim: PU works for hetero men who want to have relationships of any kind with attractive hetero/bi women.
If you are female and looking to have more success dating guys, then I make no claim to be an expert or give advice.