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To quote another user, Scott H Young, “superficial would be the right word to describe most aphorisms, as being merely pointers to a more nuanced set of beliefs”. So I’m sure it just has to do with the fact that of the bundle of qualities aggregately known as “jerks”, some of those qualities are attractive. Check out the blog Hooking Up Smart for more nuanced stuff on the idea of nice men vs jerks.