I remember as an high school kid PUA seemed sensible. (I had a nerdy straight male friend into it, and no personal interest since if I wanted to get laid I could use boobies.) I mostly took home “People, especially women, dig confidence, and will chase rather than be chased. ‘Bitches ain’t shit’ is therefore a desirable mindset.”.
And then just today I looked into it again, starting with the Dating market value test for women. I had trouble believing it was serious. Not because I’m supposed to want sex with hot women and nothing else, but because their idea of “hot women” isn’t hot at all. Why would I ever want that?
I get that liking androgyny and brains and being neutral to fat and small breasts are rather idiosyncratic traits. But what kind of guy wants a girl just old enough to legally consent who never swears, dresses sexy and fashionable without actually caring about it, same for sports, and has the exact three kinds of sex they show in cookie-cutter porn? That’s not a person. That’s what you get if you ask RealDoll’s research department for a toy that reconciles your horror of sluts with your hatred of prudes.
...also, the hot photo is supposed to be the one on the left, right?
And then just today I looked into it again, starting with the Dating market value test for women. I had trouble believing it was serious.
That’s because it’s a “blue line” test. At the beginning, it explicitly points out it’s orienting on averages, and defining market value in terms of breadth of appeal. It doesn’t mean lots of people will like a high scorer, it means lots of people won’t rule out the high scorer.
In other words, the person who scores perfectly on this test will probably not be hideously offensive to anyone—which means they don’t get ruled out early in the selection process. But a low score just means they’re more likely to need a “red line” strategy, aiming at strong appeal to a narrower audience, at the cost of turning more people off. (i.e., emphasizing one’s supposed “defects” would attract people who like those qualities, while turning away more of those who don’t)
(Ugh. I can’t believe I’m defending that misogynist a*hole, but I don’t see anything wrong with the test itself, just the conclusions/connotations being drawn from it.)
what kind of guy wants a girl just old enough to legally consent who never swears, dresses sexy and fashionable without actually caring about it, same for sports, and has the exact three kinds of sex they show in cookie-cutter porn?
An exaggeration of a real , very common type. The better the description fits the less common the type. Practically no one who reads this site would fall in that category (I think/hope) if only because boring people are boring.
I remember as an high school kid PUA seemed sensible. (I had a nerdy straight male friend into it, and no personal interest since if I wanted to get laid I could use boobies.) I mostly took home “People, especially women, dig confidence, and will chase rather than be chased. ‘Bitches ain’t shit’ is therefore a desirable mindset.”.
And then just today I looked into it again, starting with the Dating market value test for women. I had trouble believing it was serious. Not because I’m supposed to want sex with hot women and nothing else, but because their idea of “hot women” isn’t hot at all. Why would I ever want that?
I get that liking androgyny and brains and being neutral to fat and small breasts are rather idiosyncratic traits. But what kind of guy wants a girl just old enough to legally consent who never swears, dresses sexy and fashionable without actually caring about it, same for sports, and has the exact three kinds of sex they show in cookie-cutter porn? That’s not a person. That’s what you get if you ask RealDoll’s research department for a toy that reconciles your horror of sluts with your hatred of prudes.
...also, the hot photo is supposed to be the one on the left, right?
That’s because it’s a “blue line” test. At the beginning, it explicitly points out it’s orienting on averages, and defining market value in terms of breadth of appeal. It doesn’t mean lots of people will like a high scorer, it means lots of people won’t rule out the high scorer.
In other words, the person who scores perfectly on this test will probably not be hideously offensive to anyone—which means they don’t get ruled out early in the selection process. But a low score just means they’re more likely to need a “red line” strategy, aiming at strong appeal to a narrower audience, at the cost of turning more people off. (i.e., emphasizing one’s supposed “defects” would attract people who like those qualities, while turning away more of those who don’t)
(Ugh. I can’t believe I’m defending that misogynist a*hole, but I don’t see anything wrong with the test itself, just the conclusions/connotations being drawn from it.)
An exaggeration of a real , very common type. The better the description fits the less common the type. Practically no one who reads this site would fall in that category (I think/hope) if only because boring people are boring.
Yes.