If you think it probably isn’t worth the predictable breakdown in discussion to spread around some particular piece of offensive-but-helpful-and-true advice, I’m not going to second-guess you.
The trouble is, I really don’t see how any course of action would have much hope of avoiding at least one of the three listed failure modes. On the one hand, I don’t want to be the one responsible for failure (1) or (3), but on the other, I have grown fond enough of this forum that I’d hate to see it degenerate into just another place where failures of type (2) go on unnoticed. Hence my attempt to draw attention to the problem by discussing it at the meta level.
The trouble is, I really don’t see how any course of action would have much hope of avoiding at least one of the three listed failure modes. On the one hand, I don’t want to be the one responsible for failure (1) or (3), but on the other, I have grown fond enough of this forum that I’d hate to see it degenerate into just another place where failures of type (2) go on unnoticed. Hence my attempt to draw attention to the problem by discussing it at the meta level.