Now, admittedly I haven’t seen a whole lot of evidence in this area, but I’ve seen some, and I couldn’t name a single woman I know personally who has ever, in my presence or by report that I’ve heard, gone for a jerk.
I could name a fair number (in the “doesn’t care about hurting others” sense, not the “wears motorcycle jackets” sense,) but none of them have been girls or women I would want to date me instead.
I suspect that the perceived trend owes a lot to a horns effect that guys build up around other guys who’re dating girls they want to be dating.
Was this downvoted because someone is just downvoting every single comment on this subthread because they don’t like the idea of this topic being discussed here? Because I can’t see anything wrong in Desrtopa’s comment.
I could name a fair number (in the “doesn’t care about hurting others” sense, not the “wears motorcycle jackets” sense,) but none of them have been girls or women I would want to date me instead.
I suspect that the perceived trend owes a lot to a horns effect that guys build up around other guys who’re dating girls they want to be dating.
Was this downvoted because someone is just downvoting every single comment on this subthread because they don’t like the idea of this topic being discussed here? Because I can’t see anything wrong in Desrtopa’s comment.