The answer to the question “do I get anything valuable from going to a better university?” might of course differ according to what it is you value; e.g., it could turn out that the “best” ones do a better job of preparing you for academic research but are no better for your out-of-academia career prospects, or vice versa.
(As it happens, I agree with you that they probably do have genuine advantages whether you’re looking to maximize learning, future job prospects, useful contacts, or whatever.)
The answer to the question “do I get anything valuable from going to a better university?” might of course differ according to what it is you value; e.g., it could turn out that the “best” ones do a better job of preparing you for academic research but are no better for your out-of-academia career prospects, or vice versa.
(As it happens, I agree with you that they probably do have genuine advantages whether you’re looking to maximize learning, future job prospects, useful contacts, or whatever.)