No, because social costs aren’t the only costs, and instrumental rationality should be about all your values, and the most important ones first.
The OP hit the real instrumentally rational move; find more compatible companions who value and reinforce your fundamental values. One of the compliments I’ve cherished over the years was “You’re weird, but in the right way.”
No, because social costs aren’t the only costs, and instrumental rationality should be about all your values, and the most important ones first.
The OP hit the real instrumentally rational move; find more compatible companions who value and reinforce your fundamental values. One of the compliments I’ve cherished over the years was “You’re weird, but in the right way.”