Both interpretations are viable and can co-exist—depending on the matter under discussion.
It’s pretty easy for people to strongly disagree about e.g. the merits of a sports team without condemnation being involved.
It’s very hard for people to strongly disagree about e.g. slavery without condemnation being involved.
I think the relevant attribute is “seriousness” or importance. If you imagine a spectrum of importance from “I don’t really care” on one end and “I will die for this” on the other end, the closer you are to the don’t-care end the easier it is to disagree without judging. But the closer you get to the will-die-for-it end, the harder passionless disagreement becomes.
Both interpretations are viable and can co-exist—depending on the matter under discussion.
It’s pretty easy for people to strongly disagree about e.g. the merits of a sports team without condemnation being involved.
It’s very hard for people to strongly disagree about e.g. slavery without condemnation being involved.
I think the relevant attribute is “seriousness” or importance. If you imagine a spectrum of importance from “I don’t really care” on one end and “I will die for this” on the other end, the closer you are to the don’t-care end the easier it is to disagree without judging. But the closer you get to the will-die-for-it end, the harder passionless disagreement becomes.