I have a sense that this is a disagreement about how to decide what words “really” mean, and I have a sense that I disagree with you about how to do that.
I had already (weeks ago) approvingly cited and requested for my wife and my best friend to read that particular post, which I think puts it at 99.5th percentile or higher of LW posts in terms of my wanting its message to be understood and taken to heart, so I think I disagree with this comment about as strongly as is possible.
I simply missed the difference between “what could go wrong” and “you failed, what happened” while I was focusing on the difference between “what could go wrong” and “how long could it take if everything goes as poorly as possible”.
I had already (weeks ago) approvingly cited and requested for my wife and my best friend to read that particular post, which I think puts it at 99.5th percentile or higher of LW posts in terms of my wanting its message to be understood and taken to heart, so I think I disagree with this comment about as strongly as is possible.
I simply missed the difference between “what could go wrong” and “you failed, what happened” while I was focusing on the difference between “what could go wrong” and “how long could it take if everything goes as poorly as possible”.