If you’re mostly only interacting with the type of women who are part of the LW community, you probably have an unusual view on female assertiveness among (American) women—most of us are much more assertive than average when it comes to sexuality.
It’s probably a cultural difference. I’ve also frequently heard people on this site mention that “men are expected to make the first move”, but that doesn’t seem to be true in Finland either, at least based on my experience.
Someone gave an example re: the needing change in assertiveness/attiude:
http://lesswrong.com/lw/hj6/changing_systems_is_different_than_running/9547
If you’re mostly only interacting with the type of women who are part of the LW community, you probably have an unusual view on female assertiveness among (American) women—most of us are much more assertive than average when it comes to sexuality.
It’s probably a cultural difference. I’ve also frequently heard people on this site mention that “men are expected to make the first move”, but that doesn’t seem to be true in Finland either, at least based on my experience.