As far as I know, the current idea is that women don’t know which men are rapists, and shouldn’t be resented for being cautious around men.
Prototype: woman who crosses the street at night to avoid a man she doesn’t know. The man shouldn’t feel slighted just because he knows he isn’t a rapist, or at least he shouldn’t talk about feeling unfairly treated.
I’m just describing the starting point for those discussions. I don’t have strong feelings about it, though I’ll note that crossing the street at night to avoid strange men doesn’t seem to add a lot to women’s safety.
I agree that female rapists are more likely to get away with it, and I’m expecting that sexually abusive women (of boys as well as men) are probably going to become a public issue in the forseeable future.
As far as I know, the current idea is that women don’t know which men are rapists, and shouldn’t be resented for being cautious around men.
Of course, this is exactly analogous to the idea that people do not know which blacks are criminals, and shouldn’t be resented for being cautious around blacks, with only a separation of degree.
As far as I know, the current idea is that women don’t know which men are rapists, and shouldn’t be resented for being cautious around men.
Prototype: woman who crosses the street at night to avoid a man she doesn’t know. The man shouldn’t feel slighted just because he knows he isn’t a rapist, or at least he shouldn’t talk about feeling unfairly treated.
I’m just describing the starting point for those discussions. I don’t have strong feelings about it, though I’ll note that crossing the street at night to avoid strange men doesn’t seem to add a lot to women’s safety.
I agree that female rapists are more likely to get away with it, and I’m expecting that sexually abusive women (of boys as well as men) are probably going to become a public issue in the forseeable future.
Of course, this is exactly analogous to the idea that people do not know which blacks are criminals, and shouldn’t be resented for being cautious around blacks, with only a separation of degree.