I’m sure that’s what you’d prefer, all other things being equal. And if you could order up women from Dell, custom designed to your specs, you’d check that box.
But in practice, the very nice gal you’ve taken an interest in turns out not to be like that. And the next one. And the next after that. Is this single feature so important that you’d rather be alone than consider a woman not “up to spec”?
(I suspected that there was some inferential distance due to cultural/pondian differences, but I recently spent a week and a half in a country overseas where (according to Wikipedia at least) there are even fewer atheists than in the US, and ISTM that women willing to own up to wanting sex exist there too. So, if you’re having trouble finding such people, unless you’re in an Islamic theocracy or something I have to guess you’re just looking in the wrong places.)
If having to say “yes” or “no” in response to an offer counts as having an onus put on you… Then I’d prefer one of the few women who aren’t like that.
I’m sure that’s what you’d prefer, all other things being equal. And if you could order up women from Dell, custom designed to your specs, you’d check that box.
But in practice, the very nice gal you’ve taken an interest in turns out not to be like that. And the next one. And the next after that. Is this single feature so important that you’d rather be alone than consider a woman not “up to spec”?
Then there’s probably something wrong with the way I decide which people to meet in the first place.
(I suspected that there was some inferential distance due to cultural/pondian differences, but I recently spent a week and a half in a country overseas where (according to Wikipedia at least) there are even fewer atheists than in the US, and ISTM that women willing to own up to wanting sex exist there too. So, if you’re having trouble finding such people, unless you’re in an Islamic theocracy or something I have to guess you’re just looking in the wrong places.)
All sorts of people exist everywhere. I intended only a valid observation on the general population, not a rule without exceptions.