advising women to use make up to make themselves look uglier
That sounds like it would make it harder for them to get consensual sex either. The analogue of that wouldn’t be just wearing ostensibly cheap clothes so that muggers, pickpockets, etc. won’t target you, it would be leaving your wallet at home so that you can’t even spend money if you do want to.
And if victims of thieves were customarily asked why they were carrying money in the first place if they were going to keep it for themselves (as if the askers didn’t realize that someone could be willing to potentially give money to people but not to anyone who asks, or more realistically as if they were envious that they’re not the ones being given the money) and accused of being prodigal, they’d be probably eventually be quite rightly pissed off by that.
That sounds like it would make it harder for them to get consensual sex either.
So you admit that these alleged “rapes” are some combination of sufficiently rare and/or insufficiently bad, that the expected utility loss from them is less than the expected utility gain from the increased amount of consensual sex?
It also matters how much rarer rapes are given modest clothes than given sexy clothes, to which question I’ve heard that the answer is “not so much as one would expect”.
That sounds like it would make it harder for them to get consensual sex either. The analogue of that wouldn’t be just wearing ostensibly cheap clothes so that muggers, pickpockets, etc. won’t target you, it would be leaving your wallet at home so that you can’t even spend money if you do want to.
And if victims of thieves were customarily asked why they were carrying money in the first place if they were going to keep it for themselves (as if the askers didn’t realize that someone could be willing to potentially give money to people but not to anyone who asks, or more realistically as if they were envious that they’re not the ones being given the money) and accused of being prodigal, they’d be probably eventually be quite rightly pissed off by that.
So you admit that these alleged “rapes” are some combination of sufficiently rare and/or insufficiently bad, that the expected utility loss from them is less than the expected utility gain from the increased amount of consensual sex?
I dunno, having no first-hand experience.
It also matters how much rarer rapes are given modest clothes than given sexy clothes, to which question I’ve heard that the answer is “not so much as one would expect”.