Your use may be technically correct but it is very misleading. If you simply say “do A or B”, it’s clear that doing one is sufficient so a person who wants to save effort will only do one. Specifying “xor” therefore suggests that there is some additional harm to doing both, beyond nonminimality.
If the purpose is to be mininmal, yes.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Exclusive_or
“one or the other but not both.” From Wikipedia.
I begin to think I was not that wrong...…
Your use may be technically correct but it is very misleading. If you simply say “do A or B”, it’s clear that doing one is sufficient so a person who wants to save effort will only do one. Specifying “xor” therefore suggests that there is some additional harm to doing both, beyond nonminimality.