Right, that makes sense, but most things I’ve seen on such lists are more focused on personal experiences that would be enjoyable and/or challenging. The first Google hit I got was http://brass612.tripod.com/cgi-bin/things.html and it has the typical things: skydive, travel, eat rare foods, have adventures. Some of them are focused on other people or leaving the world a better (or at least different) place but most of them seem to be for the purpose of giving yourself happy memories.
Is doing this irrational? Or at least, would it be irrational to pursue such activities if you knew that you weren’t going to live long afterward?
Turning it around, suppose there were an adventure which would be unique and exciting, but also fatal? Consider skydiving without a parachute, perhaps into a scenic wilderness. Clearly you won’t remember the experience afterwards, you’ll have only those few minutes. Should the discovery of a shortened lifespan make this kind of adventure more attractive?
Haha, if you knew you were going to die without recovering enough health to do anything else of value, only perhaps drain you family’s bank accounts and emotions, along with hospital resources, hooked up to machines, that kind of adventure SHOULD be more attractive.
I think you’re underestimating the value of an experience as you live it. I would think that the value of a happy memory is only a small fraction of the value of a good experience, and a lot of the value of the memory is in directing you to seek out further good experiences and to believe in your own ability to engage in activities with good outcomes. But these positive benefits are only valuable because while you keep the happy memories in mind, you engage in further positive experiences.
Just because you don’t remember something doesn’t mean it disappears. It’s still there—just at a certain position in time. You seem to be thinking, “Well, I can’t remember this now, I can’t remember the happiness, therefore the happiness I experienced doesn’t exist.” But remember there won’t be any you to forget how good skydiving to your death felt in retrospect, and there WILL be a you at the time of diving to feel gloriously good—as opposed to the you who could feel miserably bad over a protracted deathbed.
But I would think the most important things to do would involve loved ones—either providing for them after they’re gone or bonding as much as you can with them while they’re around. Which may makes things more painful, but at least you’ll know you had an impact on the world, could convey your ideas and values—which most of us consider as an essential part of ourselves. Other priorities for extending your influence might include writing memoirs or giving and recording a talk. You might also have something you need to do—like go see something for yourself—so you can HAVE an idea or position to record and influence others with after your life.
And certainly things like saving for your retirement would become unimportant, so your overall priorities would shift.
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Right, that makes sense, but most things I’ve seen on such lists are more focused on personal experiences that would be enjoyable and/or challenging. The first Google hit I got was http://brass612.tripod.com/cgi-bin/things.html and it has the typical things: skydive, travel, eat rare foods, have adventures. Some of them are focused on other people or leaving the world a better (or at least different) place but most of them seem to be for the purpose of giving yourself happy memories.
Is doing this irrational? Or at least, would it be irrational to pursue such activities if you knew that you weren’t going to live long afterward?
Turning it around, suppose there were an adventure which would be unique and exciting, but also fatal? Consider skydiving without a parachute, perhaps into a scenic wilderness. Clearly you won’t remember the experience afterwards, you’ll have only those few minutes. Should the discovery of a shortened lifespan make this kind of adventure more attractive?
Haha, if you knew you were going to die without recovering enough health to do anything else of value, only perhaps drain you family’s bank accounts and emotions, along with hospital resources, hooked up to machines, that kind of adventure SHOULD be more attractive.
I think you’re underestimating the value of an experience as you live it. I would think that the value of a happy memory is only a small fraction of the value of a good experience, and a lot of the value of the memory is in directing you to seek out further good experiences and to believe in your own ability to engage in activities with good outcomes. But these positive benefits are only valuable because while you keep the happy memories in mind, you engage in further positive experiences.
Just because you don’t remember something doesn’t mean it disappears. It’s still there—just at a certain position in time. You seem to be thinking, “Well, I can’t remember this now, I can’t remember the happiness, therefore the happiness I experienced doesn’t exist.” But remember there won’t be any you to forget how good skydiving to your death felt in retrospect, and there WILL be a you at the time of diving to feel gloriously good—as opposed to the you who could feel miserably bad over a protracted deathbed.
But I would think the most important things to do would involve loved ones—either providing for them after they’re gone or bonding as much as you can with them while they’re around. Which may makes things more painful, but at least you’ll know you had an impact on the world, could convey your ideas and values—which most of us consider as an essential part of ourselves. Other priorities for extending your influence might include writing memoirs or giving and recording a talk. You might also have something you need to do—like go see something for yourself—so you can HAVE an idea or position to record and influence others with after your life.
And certainly things like saving for your retirement would become unimportant, so your overall priorities would shift.
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