I’m thinking of the responses to critics of late. Even the arseholes are slightly worth listening to, but tone arguments are a way of not listening, and this may miss something important even if it’s often all the response it deserves. No-one’s obligated not to use it, but it’s a good exercise to be able not to, particularly for the benefit of onlookers.
Of course, listening doesn’t leave a record, so it’s hard to tell how many people are listening. It’s the relative handful of people who reply who define the perceived tone of the site’s response.
Or are you suggesting that responding to the substance is a better strategy than simply listening?
Hmmm. Driving readers away in such a way that they don’t even respond strikes me as bad. But in working out what to do about this, I’m left with asking my other-people-simulator, which I strongly suspect will just hand me back the results of typical mind fallacy.
I’m thinking of the responses to critics of late. Even the arseholes are slightly worth listening to, but tone arguments are a way of not listening, and this may miss something important even if it’s often all the response it deserves. No-one’s obligated not to use it, but it’s a good exercise to be able not to, particularly for the benefit of onlookers.
Of course, listening doesn’t leave a record, so it’s hard to tell how many people are listening. It’s the relative handful of people who reply who define the perceived tone of the site’s response.
Or are you suggesting that responding to the substance is a better strategy than simply listening?
Hmmm. Driving readers away in such a way that they don’t even respond strikes me as bad. But in working out what to do about this, I’m left with asking my other-people-simulator, which I strongly suspect will just hand me back the results of typical mind fallacy.