If someone has something they may well be right about, and you don’t learn it, that’s a problem. Or if they make an argument that you know is wrong from parallel lines of evidence but can’t say why it’s wrong, that’s a slightly smaller problem. And it’s a problem with you, not with them. This is a general principle of disagreement. This post is the charge that we are bad at learning from people.
Hmm. Or maybe that’s not right. We could be learning from them (on average), but still driving them away because what seemed like constructive argument from one side didn’t from the other. In which case, that’s fine and you shouldn’t listen to this comment :P
but still driving them away because what seemed like constructive argument from one side didn’t from the other.
Or still driving them away because the comment stream petered out before people got around to expressing their changed viewpoint and the contrarian left because he never realized he was having an impact. The post and comment format isn’t really very good for a serious back-and-forth discussion. Especially when posts are so briefly on the front page, note that this is another good reason for getting meet-up announcements OFF of the discussion page.
This could be rephrased more positively :D
If someone has something they may well be right about, and you don’t learn it, that’s a problem. Or if they make an argument that you know is wrong from parallel lines of evidence but can’t say why it’s wrong, that’s a slightly smaller problem. And it’s a problem with you, not with them. This is a general principle of disagreement. This post is the charge that we are bad at learning from people.
Hmm. Or maybe that’s not right. We could be learning from them (on average), but still driving them away because what seemed like constructive argument from one side didn’t from the other. In which case, that’s fine and you shouldn’t listen to this comment :P
Or still driving them away because the comment stream petered out before people got around to expressing their changed viewpoint and the contrarian left because he never realized he was having an impact. The post and comment format isn’t really very good for a serious back-and-forth discussion. Especially when posts are so briefly on the front page, note that this is another good reason for getting meet-up announcements OFF of the discussion page.