Perhaps that connotation is because of the group in question? I dislike playing word games, the words we use should be interchangeable if they refer to the exact same thing. It’s kind of like how we went from Negroes to Black to African Americans in an attempt to combat racism, but the racism was the problem, not bad words, and it only gets confusing when you word police. I was talking to some social justice types before the term was used in a derogatory way online and they described themselves that way, and the first place I saw it online was as a self-description of those groups. Words get loaded with bad affect because people have negative thoughts about the thing being referred to. I think any decision to use a new word that predates changing the thing to which we are referring is premature.
Someone told me yesterday that airline stewards don’t want to be called stewards anymore; they want to be called, I think, flight attendants. The funny thing is that “steward” used to mean a very high-ranking individual, the person who ran a great lord’s estate. The airline industry used it for their stewardesses to artificially inflate their status. Over time, the role, at least in the opinion of flight attendants, degraded the word, until they didn’t want it anymore.
The thing is, there used to be very few airline stewards but a lot of stewardesses. Back in those ancient days when jet travel was an upper-class thing the airline stewardesses were supposed to be pretty girls. And no, I don’t think the word “stewardess” implied any high status. Great lord’s estate or no, a steward is still a servant (Gondor notwithstanding).
The change to “flight attendant”, IMHO, was done to eliminate the gender reference.
Wow, I find that really surprising; I am hardly in tune with the “proper” terms one should use these days, but the flight attendant thing has been second nature to me for at least 10 years, and thought it was for everybody. I’d be really curious as to why you only became aware of it recently; do you not fly very often? I want to stress that I am not criticizing you or anything, my curiosity is just piqued.
Yeah, I’ve noticed that when the word used for something is intentionally changed, oftentimes it is because the thing being referred to is viewed negatively by many. In addition, once the new word has widespread adoption, use of the old word is a signal that you indeed do view what it refers to negatively. A recent example is some politician who talked about what the NAACP should do if they wanted to help “colored” people; it was widely derided as a racist statement, even though he was simply expanding part of the acronym of the organization he was referring to. Similarly, afaik the word “retarded” was not considered pejorative back when it was in common use (nor was “idiot” a long time before that). The fact that “black” is still perfectly acceptable even after the introduction of “African American” gives me hope that there is a recognition that race relations are markedly improved.
Perhaps that connotation is because of the group in question? I dislike playing word games, the words we use should be interchangeable if they refer to the exact same thing. It’s kind of like how we went from Negroes to Black to African Americans in an attempt to combat racism, but the racism was the problem, not bad words, and it only gets confusing when you word police. I was talking to some social justice types before the term was used in a derogatory way online and they described themselves that way, and the first place I saw it online was as a self-description of those groups. Words get loaded with bad affect because people have negative thoughts about the thing being referred to. I think any decision to use a new word that predates changing the thing to which we are referring is premature.
Or, y’know, because people who call themselves these words do bad things.
I was trying not to kick the bees nest too hard, but I agree with you, doing bad things does tend to make people think bad things about you.
Someone told me yesterday that airline stewards don’t want to be called stewards anymore; they want to be called, I think, flight attendants. The funny thing is that “steward” used to mean a very high-ranking individual, the person who ran a great lord’s estate. The airline industry used it for their stewardesses to artificially inflate their status. Over time, the role, at least in the opinion of flight attendants, degraded the word, until they didn’t want it anymore.
The thing is, there used to be very few airline stewards but a lot of stewardesses. Back in those ancient days when jet travel was an upper-class thing the airline stewardesses were supposed to be pretty girls. And no, I don’t think the word “stewardess” implied any high status. Great lord’s estate or no, a steward is still a servant (Gondor notwithstanding).
The change to “flight attendant”, IMHO, was done to eliminate the gender reference.
Wow, I find that really surprising; I am hardly in tune with the “proper” terms one should use these days, but the flight attendant thing has been second nature to me for at least 10 years, and thought it was for everybody. I’d be really curious as to why you only became aware of it recently; do you not fly very often? I want to stress that I am not criticizing you or anything, my curiosity is just piqued.
Yeah, I’ve noticed that when the word used for something is intentionally changed, oftentimes it is because the thing being referred to is viewed negatively by many. In addition, once the new word has widespread adoption, use of the old word is a signal that you indeed do view what it refers to negatively. A recent example is some politician who talked about what the NAACP should do if they wanted to help “colored” people; it was widely derided as a racist statement, even though he was simply expanding part of the acronym of the organization he was referring to. Similarly, afaik the word “retarded” was not considered pejorative back when it was in common use (nor was “idiot” a long time before that). The fact that “black” is still perfectly acceptable even after the introduction of “African American” gives me hope that there is a recognition that race relations are markedly improved.