While I agree with your actual point, I note with amusement that what’s worse is the people who claim they do understand: “I understand that you want to own a gun because it’s a penis-substitute”, “I understand that you don’t want me to own a gun because you live in a fantasy world where there’s no crime”, “I understand that you’re talking about my beauty because you think you own me”, “I understand that you complain about people talking about your beauty as a way of boasting about how beautiful you are.”… None of these explanations are anywhere near true.
It would be a sign of wisdom if someone actually did post “I’m stupid: I can hardly ever understand the viewpoint of anyone who disagrees with me.”
it would probably be some kind of weird signalling game, maybe.
On the other hand, posting:”I don’t understand how etc etc, please, somebody explain to me the reasoning behind it” would be a good strategy to start debating and opening an avenue to “convert” others
While I agree with your actual point, I note with amusement that what’s worse is the people who claim they do understand: “I understand that you want to own a gun because it’s a penis-substitute”, “I understand that you don’t want me to own a gun because you live in a fantasy world where there’s no crime”, “I understand that you’re talking about my beauty because you think you own me”, “I understand that you complain about people talking about your beauty as a way of boasting about how beautiful you are.”… None of these explanations are anywhere near true.
It would be a sign of wisdom if someone actually did post “I’m stupid: I can hardly ever understand the viewpoint of anyone who disagrees with me.”
Ah, but would it be, though?
it would probably be some kind of weird signalling game, maybe. On the other hand, posting:”I don’t understand how etc etc, please, somebody explain to me the reasoning behind it” would be a good strategy to start debating and opening an avenue to “convert” others
It probably would. Usually a person who writes something like this is looking for an explanation.