I like and agree with your argument here in general.
I don’t think it’s true that, in the specific LW case, ”...you didn’t know how each other felt about it or what it meant to each other, and that if you’d more thoroughly seen the world through each others’ eyes, it wouldn’t seem like ‘zero point’ is the relevant frame here.”
Or at least, none of what you said about the LW admin perspective was new to me; it had all been taken into account by me at the time. (I suspect at all times I was capable of passing their ITT with at least a C+ grade; I am less sure they were capable of passing mine.)
But that individual case seems separate from your overall point, which does seem correct. So I’m not sure where disagreement lies.
I like and agree with your argument here in general.
I don’t think it’s true that, in the specific LW case, ”...you didn’t know how each other felt about it or what it meant to each other, and that if you’d more thoroughly seen the world through each others’ eyes, it wouldn’t seem like ‘zero point’ is the relevant frame here.”
Or at least, none of what you said about the LW admin perspective was new to me; it had all been taken into account by me at the time. (I suspect at all times I was capable of passing their ITT with at least a C+ grade; I am less sure they were capable of passing mine.)
But that individual case seems separate from your overall point, which does seem correct. So I’m not sure where disagreement lies.