Perhaps the Internet could be of assistance in getting some benefits from radical honesty. You could keep a blog anonymously and write down what you really think about people. You could change names and places to avoid hurting yourself or others, but the substance would be, hopefully, unchanged. Then people could give you feedback (even anonymously if they don’t like being known as someone who hurt someone).
I think there’s a website out there that allows you to query people about something and people who don’t know you can write what they think. People are sometimes mean for the sake of being mean, rather than being honest, though, which is problematic.
Perhaps the Internet could be of assistance in getting some benefits from radical honesty. You could keep a blog anonymously and write down what you really think about people. You could change names and places to avoid hurting yourself or others, but the substance would be, hopefully, unchanged. Then people could give you feedback (even anonymously if they don’t like being known as someone who hurt someone).
I think there’s a website out there that allows you to query people about something and people who don’t know you can write what they think. People are sometimes mean for the sake of being mean, rather than being honest, though, which is problematic.