‘Computational unkindness’ seems to intersect quite heavily with the idea of emotional labour, in particular that example about taking responsibility for planning a trip. I think this has already been quite heavily discussed in feminist circles as I guess many women on average might tend to be less assertive in the types of situations you described. I’m struggling to think of any real distinction between the two ideas actually.
‘Computational unkindness’ seems to intersect quite heavily with the idea of emotional labour, in particular that example about taking responsibility for planning a trip. I think this has already been quite heavily discussed in feminist circles as I guess many women on average might tend to be less assertive in the types of situations you described. I’m struggling to think of any real distinction between the two ideas actually.