Moving on… let me requote the line that started this thread:
frequently people will write something along the lines of “It looks like you’re arguing X. X is bad because...” This is a very important aspect of politeness—it means taking the potential status hit to yourself of having misinterpreted the other person and provides them a line of retreat in case they really did mean X and now want to distance themselves from it.
That seems to me to be a pretty good summary of the strategy I used here… I summarized the position I saw you as arguing, then went on to explain what was wrong with that position.
Looking at the conversation, that strategy at least seems to have worked well… at least, it got us to a place where we could resolve the disagreement in a couple of short moves.
But you seem to be saying that, when dealing with people as rational as the typical LWer, it’s not a good strategy.
So, OK: what ought I have said instead, and how would saying that have worked better?
If the first statement is true, F2 doesn’t force Sam to admit they were wrong. What it does is force Sam not to change their mind.
This by itself would have worked, and to the extent it could be described as working better, it would have punished me for not properly constructing your model in my head, something which I consider required for a response.
OK, glad we cleared that up.
Moving on… let me requote the line that started this thread:
That seems to me to be a pretty good summary of the strategy I used here… I summarized the position I saw you as arguing, then went on to explain what was wrong with that position.
Looking at the conversation, that strategy at least seems to have worked well… at least, it got us to a place where we could resolve the disagreement in a couple of short moves.
But you seem to be saying that, when dealing with people as rational as the typical LWer, it’s not a good strategy.
So, OK: what ought I have said instead, and how would saying that have worked better?
This by itself would have worked, and to the extent it could be described as working better, it would have punished me for not properly constructing your model in my head, something which I consider required for a response.
edit: the differences are very slight.