BTW, when people start saying, not, “You offended me, personally” but “I’m worried about how other people will react”, I usually take that as a cue to give up.
This too is not the key point in question. Your reaction here can be expected to correlate with other reactions you would make in situations not necessarily related to PR. In particular it says something about potential responses to ego damaging information. I am sure you can see how that would be relevant to estimates of possible value (positive or negative) that you will contribute. I again disclaim that ‘influences’ does not mean ‘drastically influences’.
Note that the reply in the parent does relate to other contexts somewhat more than this one.
Maybe because most people who talk to you know that they are not typical and also know that others wouldn’t be as polite given your style of argumentation?
People who know they aren’t typical should probably realize that their simulation of typical minds will often be wrong. A corollary to Vinge’s Law, perhaps?
BTW, when people start saying, not, “You offended me, personally” but “I’m worried about how other people will react”, I usually take that as a cue to give up.
This too is not the key point in question. Your reaction here can be expected to correlate with other reactions you would make in situations not necessarily related to PR. In particular it says something about potential responses to ego damaging information. I am sure you can see how that would be relevant to estimates of possible value (positive or negative) that you will contribute. I again disclaim that ‘influences’ does not mean ‘drastically influences’.
Note that the reply in the parent does relate to other contexts somewhat more than this one.
Maybe because most people who talk to you know that they are not typical and also know that others wouldn’t be as polite given your style of argumentation?
People who know they aren’t typical should probably realize that their simulation of typical minds will often be wrong. A corollary to Vinge’s Law, perhaps?