1: What traits are most important to you in a prospective partner?
I don’t want myself to be like these girls on OKC that write long laundry lists of specific demands. People are allowed to be awesome in ways I cannot predict in advance.
2: What kind of role would you want your partner(s) to play in your life?
See 1.
3: How much time would you spend together, ideally?
Two or three days a week. I need a lot of personal time and space. Even when I’m completely head over heels in limerence, seeing the person more than three times a week feels “wrong” to me and I instinctively try to reduce it.
4: How important is it to you that you share similar tastes?
Not important.
5: How important is it that you be ideologically similar?
Not important.
6: What, if anything, are your dealbreakers?
Being controlling, frequently “depressed”, or having no interests. The three often go together.
I don’t want myself to be like these girls on OKC that write long laundry lists of specific demands. People are allowed to be awesome in ways I cannot predict in advance.
See 1.
Two or three days a week. I need a lot of personal time and space. Even when I’m completely head over heels in limerence, seeing the person more than three times a week feels “wrong” to me and I instinctively try to reduce it.
Not important.
Not important.
Being controlling, frequently “depressed”, or having no interests. The three often go together.