it can be helpful to check to see if they believe you missed something, though of course humans are not at all guaranteed to be honest if asked such a thing. but keeping the spirit of cooperation alive requires both parties to risk the possibility that the other will say mean things, and to be willing to reject each others’ claims in situations where it is appropriate. filling in the details of this is left as an exercise to the entirety of human history.
it can be helpful to check to see if they believe you missed something, though of course humans are not at all guaranteed to be honest if asked such a thing. but keeping the spirit of cooperation alive requires both parties to risk the possibility that the other will say mean things, and to be willing to reject each others’ claims in situations where it is appropriate. filling in the details of this is left as an exercise to the entirety of human history.