If you read his own version in this story, dealing with the issue brings himself stress that causes health issues. Dealing with the issue is not good for him by his own admission. Putting higher standards on his own behavior means more stress.
There are situations where it simply makes sense to cut the loses and move on.
My consideration of the value of his criticism was separate to these health concerns. Perhaps when taking it into account, yours is the sensible conclusion to come to.
On LW we have the habit to analyse details and have high standards for them. There are cases where that’s valuable. In this case it makes more sense to look at the situation as a whole and see how a solution with beneficial for everyone involved looks like.
Look at the the decision tree and the results and then pick the node that goes in the right direction.
If you read his own version in this story, dealing with the issue brings himself stress that causes health issues. Dealing with the issue is not good for him by his own admission. Putting higher standards on his own behavior means more stress.
There are situations where it simply makes sense to cut the loses and move on.
My consideration of the value of his criticism was separate to these health concerns. Perhaps when taking it into account, yours is the sensible conclusion to come to.
On LW we have the habit to analyse details and have high standards for them. There are cases where that’s valuable. In this case it makes more sense to look at the situation as a whole and see how a solution with beneficial for everyone involved looks like.
Look at the the decision tree and the results and then pick the node that goes in the right direction.