But in this scenario, understanding still lives inside Carol’s head, not Alice’s.
I wasn’t suggesting that someone like Carol abdicate responsibility in this sort of situation. The point is that it’s still on Alice to get someone to understand her. Who needs to understand her depends on the situation. Clarity without understanding seems meaningless to me. (Perhaps see reply to Zvi: can we taboo ‘clarity?’)
But in this scenario, understanding still lives inside Carol’s head, not Alice’s.
I wasn’t suggesting that someone like Carol abdicate responsibility in this sort of situation. The point is that it’s still on Alice to get someone to understand her. Who needs to understand her depends on the situation. Clarity without understanding seems meaningless to me. (Perhaps see reply to Zvi: can we taboo ‘clarity?’)