As someone who enjoyed the Solstice a great deal, I’d like to throw a data point out there:
my family doesn’t have a religious or spiritual background of any kind, so I didn’t experience rituals as a child. I still enjoy spiritual / religious singing in groups, both in languages I understand and don’t, and usually don’t take the lyrics seriously. I find most of the value in the feeling of bonding / appreciation.
The event felt more playful than solemn, and certainly not authoritative. People seemed to be taking it with a grain of salt, it was like a social experiment of sorts. I felt perfectly comfortable with not singing along for some of the time, and this didn’t feel alienating or disengaging.
That said, I think I do understand your revulsion towards rituals, and your view about collectivization of emotional experience is an interesting point that hasn’t occurred to me.
As someone who enjoyed the Solstice a great deal, I’d like to throw a data point out there:
my family doesn’t have a religious or spiritual background of any kind, so I didn’t experience rituals as a child. I still enjoy spiritual / religious singing in groups, both in languages I understand and don’t, and usually don’t take the lyrics seriously. I find most of the value in the feeling of bonding / appreciation.
The event felt more playful than solemn, and certainly not authoritative. People seemed to be taking it with a grain of salt, it was like a social experiment of sorts. I felt perfectly comfortable with not singing along for some of the time, and this didn’t feel alienating or disengaging.
That said, I think I do understand your revulsion towards rituals, and your view about collectivization of emotional experience is an interesting point that hasn’t occurred to me.