The general approach of teaching vs helping goes is the same directions as “say yes, but” in this post I wrote some time ago, more examples (esp. for older kids) can be found there:
https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/DEsgKpLJ9LvTRuDh7/soft-paternalism-in-parenting
The general approach of teaching vs helping goes is the same directions as “say yes, but” in this post I wrote some time ago, more examples (esp. for older kids) can be found there:
https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/DEsgKpLJ9LvTRuDh7/soft-paternalism-in-parenting